Day #13 - A letter to someone who has hurt you recently.

I'm going to be honest with you: It takes a lot to hurt me. Like truly, cut me deep. But lately, certain family members have been hurting me simply by their ignorance and immaturity.

So, at the risk of putting this out there publicly and having someone see it (which I'm coming to find, I kind of don't give a shit), here we go, directed really to three people.


You're so "depressed", it's almost pathetic. Stop whining constantly and do something about it, ok? And stop saying that our family isn't helping out in your neck of the woods. People do EVERYTHING for you guys, my father included. I also don't think you're taking a step back and really LOOKING at this situation. Your mom is the one who got here. I understand that '07 was a tough time for her. But it's time for her to stop making excuses and get back on her feet. And it's time for you to stop feeding into/adding onto her complaining, man up, and do something about your life. It's YOUR life, after all; please take control of it.



Where does your money go? Oh, wait - I know. Tattoos and piercings. Don't get me wrong, you're talking to a girl who has plenty of those, but you're also talking to a girl who's responsible and budgets her money. And also doesn't move every couple months. Or start a job and then find some excuse to end it. I don't understand what happened to you. You were one of my favorites. And now...I get sick to my stomach thinking about how you've become. A good deal of it has to do with a certain person's influence. But now you're above that. Please stop begging people for help, all while saying that you don't NEED help or you don't WANT help, when your insinuations reek of seeking money. Money that you aren't even going to use to pay your bills.


Your problem deals with you and him, yes, but I'm starting to see that maybe you're a bigger part of it than I originally thought. He's scum. He always has been. He looked me up and down the first time I ever met him in a way I won't forget. He probably has cheated on you and probably still is. I don't trust him an iota. And you don't help this situation at all. You're up, you're down. Get a grip. Get out of there. You know you need to, you know there's obviously something wrong here. Your hope is futile. And I know there are a lot of assets attached to this, but hey: that's kind of your fault. You should know better than to go and do something like that and back yourself into a corner. I also have a feeling that if this DOES end, you'll be on to the next soon after. STOP DOING THAT. Stop being so needy. You can handle this yourself, I know you can. So, hop to it.